Have you ever confronted a circumstance where you nearly need to ask your young ones to come clean with you since you accept his answer was not what you truly want to hear? You continue asking and afterward, come the wizardry expression, “it is corrupt to lie!”
On the off chance that you are grinning as you read this line, I am grinning at you too.I definitely know the appropriate response. We as a whole did that. Frequently, subsequent to rehashing a similar expression our words fail to be noticed. The expression, “it is corrupt to lie” become excessively regular all the rage and your kid’s ears yet, you actually need to impart similar qualities. What choices would you say you are left with? Not much, but rather there are a couple of hadiths (Prophetic words from The Prophet Muhammad PBUH) and sections from the Quran that you can tenderly impart into your kid’s brain. Perusing them with your friends and family every day may assist you with your central goal, yet in addition is fulfilling and advantageous for both you and the relatives.
Here are some prophetic words and Quran refrains to supplant your, “it is corrupt to lie” express.
The first is this, from surah Al-Baqarah section 42, in which Allah state in an exceptionally inconspicuous way, “And don’t blend truth in with lie, and don’t hide reality while you know.(2:42)”It is a decent suggestion to impart into your youngster about talking reality particularly on genuine issues where truth is the target we look for. When utilizing the Quran stanza, not just you are doing an ibadah for edifying the family with Quranic esteems, yet additionally leave your youngster with almost no space to go keep overstating his falsehoods.
Besides, there is additionally a ton of a part from the Quran named Munafiqoon which implies The Hypocrites. Here, the munafiqoon are given 3 qualities one of which is the liars. I won’t guidance you to utilize this refrain towards your kid as it is very brutal to consider somebody a munafiq (a poser). All things being equal, instill to them the threat and Allah’s limitation for being a liar.
Not just the Quran show us the qualities of a two-timer, yet it additionally instructs us the stuff to be excused. In the section, Al-Ghafir, refrain 28, Allah said that, “On the off chance that he is a liar, his lying will bounce back upon him; however on the off chance that he is honest, at that point some of what he guarantees you will come to pass for you. God doesn’t direct the extreme faker (40:28).” This section can be the best one to supplant your critical, “it is wicked to lie” express. It is acceptable at times to train the youthful ones the outcomes of their own personal activity with the goal that they are more careful of what they need to absolute each time they talk.
Adjacent to all the stanzas from the Quran, the Prophet Muhammad PBUH likewise once stated, that the individuals who lie are not among his supporters (Riwayat Muslim). As a Muslim, we accept our Prophet as our chief, thus, whatever that he preclude us to do should likewise be followed. Once more, it is so respectable to have the option to show your youngster this worth as opposed to pestering. Ibnu Qayyim additionally once cited that the tongue will show you what’s in his heart if he loves it.
Finally, I would likewise very much want to share this section from the Quran as an update for us, particularly guardians that in the Holy Quran, Allah said in surah Al-Taghabun (64:15),”your belongings and your youngsters are a test, however with God is a marvelous prize.” In another section, Allah referenced in surah Munafiqoon, refrain 9: “O you who accept! Let neither your assets nor your youngsters occupy you from the recognition of God. Whoever does that-these are the washouts (63:9)”. We should all take as much time as necessary to contemplate upon these sections occasionally as we develop our kids. A large portion of everything, for what reason don’t we remind ourselves about these stanzas first before we share them with others? In spite of being grown-ups, we also need to address ourselves now and again, insyaAllah.